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I gave this talk at Facebook not so long ago在脸谱不久前我给to about 100 employees,大约100名员工做这个演讲。and a couple hours later, there was a young woman who works there几小时后,在脸谱工作的一个年轻女性sitting outside my little desk,坐到我小桌子旁边,and she wanted to talk to me.她想和我谈谈。I said, okay, and she sat down, and we talked.我说,好,她坐了下来,我们谈了起来。And she said, ;I learned something today.她说,“我今天学了一些东西。I learned that I need to keep my hand up.;我知道我需要举起我的手。”I said, ;What do you mean?;我说,“你指什么啊?”She said, ;Well, youre giving this talk,她说,“你在讲这个话时,and you said you were going to take two more questions.你说你将会回答2个以上问题。And I had my hand up with lots of other people, and you took two more questions.我和其他一些人举起手,你回答了2个以上问题。And I put my hand down, and I noticed all the women put their hand down,我把手放下来,我注意到所有女性都把手放下来,and then you took more questions,然后你又回答了很多问题,only from the men.;仅有男性参与。”And I thought to myself,我自己想了一下,wow, if its me -- who cares about this, obviously --如果换成是我,谁会在乎这个,明显地giving this talk --做这次演讲,and during this talk, I cant even notice在这演讲中,我甚至没注意到that the mens hands are still raised,男人们的手是不是还一直举着,and the womens hands are still raised,女人们的手是不是还一直举着,how good are we我们到底有多出色,as managers of our companies and our organizations当我们作为公司和组织的经理人的时候,at seeing that the men are reaching for opportunities以及当我们作为少数,与男性竞争more than women?争取机会的时候?Weve got to get women to sit at the table.我们得让女性坐到桌子边上。Message number two:第二条:make your partner a real partner.让你的伴侣成为一个真正的合作伙伴。Ive become convinced that weve made more progress in the workforce我已经确信我们在职场than we have in the home.比起我们在家庭中起了更大的作用。The data shows this very clearly.数据也很清楚地表明这点。If a woman and a man work full-time如果一个女性和一个男性同时全职and have a child,并有一个小孩,the woman does twice the amount of housework the man does,女性比起男性要做两倍多家务活儿,and the woman does three times女性比起男性做了三倍多the amount of childcare the man does.照顾婴儿的事。So shes got three jobs or two jobs,所以她有了2份,3份工作,and hes got one.而他只有一份。Who do you think drops out when someone needs to be home more?当有人必须在家多干活时,谁应该留下来?The causes of this are really complicated,这个的理由实在太复杂,and I dont have time to go into them.我没有时间来讲它们。And I dont think Sunday football-watching但我也不认为周日看美式足球and general laziness is the cause.和日常的懒惰是理由。I think the cause is more complicated.我认为理由是更加复杂化的。I think, as a society,我认为,作为一个社会,we put more pressure on our boys to succeed我们总是更希望男孩子们成功,than we do on our girls.对女孩子则压力小些。I know men that stay home我知道有居家男人and work in the home to support wives with careers,呆在家里做内务持职场妻子and its hard.这很难。When I go to the Mommy-and-Me stuff当我去“妈咪和我”的培训课时,and I see the father there,我看到那里的父亲,I notice that the other mommies我留意到其他妈咪dont play with him.不愿和他相处。And thats a problem,这是个问题,because we have to make it as important a job,因为我们得把内务变成一个重要的工作because its the hardest job in the world to work inside the home,因为它是世界上最难的工作-居家工作for people of both genders,无论男人女人,if were going to even things out and let women stay in the workforce.我们只有平分了这些事,女性才可能留在职场。Studies show that households with equal earning研究表明夫妻收入相等、and equal responsibility且夫妻分担责任相当的家庭also have half the divorce rate.也有50%的离婚率。And if that wasnt good enough motivation for everyone out there,如果这数据并不那么鼓舞人,they also have more --还有更多的how shall I say this on this stage? --在这个讲台我该怎么讲呢?they know each other more in the biblical sense as well.夫妻双方对于彼此的了解,不仅是做爱这么简单。201509/397722And yes I checked it clear没错 我很确信Now I know that youve heard the cliche e that你们肯定听过一句名言life is a marathon not a sprint生命是马拉松 而不是冲刺And Im going to tell you that sometimes我要告诉你们 有时you dont even have the time to prepare for your marathon你甚至连为马拉松做准备的时间都没有See I only had eight weeks我就只有八周时间but the opportunity to raise money for New York City kids was too great但为纽约市的孩子们募集资金的机会太重要了But here is difference但是你们不一样today you are prepared你们今天已经做好了准备See if I didnt leave school early如果我没有辍学I would have been more prepared sometimes when I first was starting out我在最开始着手事业时可能就会更有准备一些I would have been more prepared in some of those boardrooms在一些会议中 我可能也会更有准备一些I would be in the boardrooms negotiating我在会议室中开会商谈事务时I wouldnt be like, what are they talking about?总是心想 他们在讲什么玩意Go out and finish my economics class去把经济学课程学清楚再来I wouldnt be writing memos my secretary would be saying我写的便函也不至于会被秘书说aint nuts will say it like that没有什么比这更屁不通的了But you are prepared不过你们做好了准备Today, you have earned your Howard degree今天 你们获得了霍华德的学位Youve earned your Howard degree你们获得了霍华德的学位You have earned your Howard degree你们获得了霍华德的学位And today而且今天youre not just graduating from the greatest black school in the world你们不仅是从全世界最伟大的黑人学校毕业了youre graduating from the greatest university on this earth你们还是从这颗星球上最伟大的大学毕业了Be clear, # be clear我明确提醒一下 这里值得#So Ill ask you again我再问你们一次do you know how powerful you are?你们知道自己有多强大吗Do you know?知道吗Now some of your dreams are going to take longer than you think有些人的梦想可能要比想象的花更长时间It took most of you 4 years to get here大多数人四年毕业了some of you 5, some of you 6有些人花了五年甚至六年If I got, Ill be我如果没辍学 估计也要那么久201501/354619Often men my age, President Clinton, by the way, when I met him said--Men my age, mention that character as their favorite of all the women Ive played. And I have my own secret understanding of why that is and it confirms every decision I made in high school. This is not to denigrate that girl, by the way, or the men who are drawn to her in anyway because shes still part of me and Im part of her. She wasnt acting but she was just behaving in a way that cowed girls, submissive girls, beaten up girls with very few ways out have behaved forever and still do in many worlds.很多年纪跟我差不多的男人,包括前总统克林顿,我遇到他的时候,他也曾经跟我说,琳达这个角色是我演过的女人当中,他们最喜欢的一个。在我心里,我非常了解背后的秘密。这也明我高中时候的决定是正确的。我想说,这并不是贬低那个女孩儿或者喜欢她的男性,因为她仍是我的一部分,我也是她的一部分。她的这种样子并不仅仅是表演出来的,事实上她只是那种脆弱顺从的女孩儿,受到命运的捉弄,没有别的出路,只有一直这么顺从下去,在现代社会,这样顺从而弱势的女孩依然存在。Now in a measure of how much the world has changed. The character most men mention as their favorite, is Miranda Priestly, the beleaguered totalitarian at the head of Runway magazine in Devil Wears Prada. To my mind, this represents such an optimistic shift. They related to Miranda. They wanted to date Linda. They feel sorry for Linda. But they feel like Miranda. They can relate to her issues: the high standards she sets for herself and others. The thanklessness of the leadership position, the ;Nobody Understans Me; thing, the loneliness. They stand outside one character, and they pity her. And they kind of fall in love with her, but they look through the eyes of this other character.但是现如今世界已经改变了,今天,大部分男人都说,他们最喜欢我演的角色是《穿着普拉达的女魔头》里面那个时尚杂志《天桥云裳》的总编辑,饱受批评的极端主义者米兰达。在我看来,这象征着想当乐观的转变。他们想与米兰达在一起,他们想要和琳达出去约会,并替她感到婉惜。但他们还是喜欢米兰达。因为他们可以在她身上找到自己的影子:她为自己和其他人设下了太高的标准,身处领导高位却不知感恩,纠葛于“无人懂我”的观念中,同时还伴有孤独感。他们如果站在角色之外,就会既可怜她又爱她,但他们会这样想,是因为他们理解这个角色。201403/279699

This only escalates all these issues, only escalates as the network world marches on.We have aly talked about the first milestone that is the Net connecting, say a billion people to perhaps a million E-businesses. The next milestone is what we and IBM call pervasive computing. Fifty years ago where did you find electric motors? Big factories, power plants, and they were big and expensive. Today you might find a hundred electric motors in the typical home - they are in the appliances, heating, ventilation systems, CD player, the VCR, and, if you are so fortunate, the electric tooth-brush. We do not buy electric motors any more. They come inside of all the things we use and do every day. The same thing is going to happen with computing devices. Chips are getting so small and so inexpensive, (that) they are being embedded in every thing - cars, appliances, tools, doorknobs, clothes. Most significantly all of these tiny intelligent devices will be interwoven in the fabric of the computing and communications network. And what will this mean for consumers and enterprises? 这只会在网络世界前进的道路上加剧这些问题。我们谈到第一个里程碑是 Internet 的连接,比方说将 10 亿人连接到 100 万个电子商务企业上。下一个里程碑是我们 IBM 所说的普遍计算 (pervasive computing)。五十年前,你在哪儿能见到电机?只能在工厂、电厂,它们非常庞大而且很贵。现在你在家里便可以看到上百个电机,各种电器设备,加热装置、通风系统、CD 播放机、录像机,如果你足够幸运的话,你还可能用到电动牙刷。今天我们不再直接购买电机了。它们跟随日常用品来到我们的生活中。类似的事情也将要在计算设备中发生。芯片越来越小,越来越便宜,能够被嵌入到各种产品中 -- 汽车、器械、工具、门把手、衣。其中最为引人注目的是将小型智能设备交织进计算和通信网络的结构中。那么这对消费者和企业来说将意味着什么呢?201312/270331

I was called down to the ward to see him.我被叫到病房去看他。His is the little hand.他的小手可以说是骨瘦如柴。I was called down to the ward to see him一名呼吸内科医生by a respiratory physician.将我叫到他的诊室。He said, ;Look, theres a guy down here.他对我说:“那有个病人”Hes got pneumonia,他得的是肺炎,and he looks like he needs intensive care.看样子他需要入你们的ICU病房。His daughters here and she wants everything possible他的女儿在这,to be done.;她希望你们能尽一切办法……Which is a familiar phrase to us.这是我们常听到的一句话。So I go down to the ward and see Jim,所以,我去病房去看Jim Smith.and his skin his translucent like this.他的皮肤半透明成了这个样子。You can see his bones through the skin.透过他的皮肤,你们以看到他的骨头。Hes very, very thin,他可是说是瘦骨嶙峋。and he is, indeed, very sick with pneumonia,他的肺炎已是相当严重了and hes too sick to talk to me,病得连和我们讲话的力气都没有了so I talk to his daughter Kathleen, and I say to her,所以,我问他的女儿Kathleen:;Did you and Jim ever talk about;你有没有和他谈过;what you would want done你会怎么处理这个事,if he ended up in this kind of situation?;如果他到了这种地步?And she looked at me and said, ;No, of course not!;她看了看我,然后说:”没有,当然没有“I thought, ;Okay. Take this steady.;好吧,我当时想,慢慢做她的工作吧。And I got talking to her, and after a while, she said to me,我和她谈了很久,然后,她对我说:;You know, we always thought thered be time.;你知道的,我们也知道,迟早会有那一天的。Jim was 94.当时已经94岁了。And I realized that something wasnt happening here.这件事让我觉得,我们可以为这类病人做些事。There wasnt this dialogue going on要不是有这件事that I imagined was happening.我也想象不到我们会不会去做这件事。So a group of us started doing survey work,所以,我们有一个小组开始做一些调查工作,and we looked at four and a half thousand nursing home我们走访了residents in Newcastle, in the Newcastle area,Newcastle地区的4500个在养老院生活的老人,and discovered that only one in a hundred of them我们发现,他们当中只有1%的人had a plan about what to do when their hearts stopped beating.对他们生理死亡后的事有计划。One in a hundred.仅仅1%。And only one in 500 of them had plan about what to do只有500分之1的老人if they became seriously ill.会对他们病重时有应对计划。And I realized, of course, this dialogue这个对话使我意识到,is definitely not occurring in the public at large.我们生活中的很多人肯定也会对我们的身后事没有计划的。Now, I work in acute care.现在,我在ICU里工作。This is John Hunter Hospital.我的医院叫“John Hunter”医院。And I thought, surely, we do better than that.而过去我一直认为,我们做得比较好。So a colleague of mine from nursing called Lisa Shaw and I所以,我和我的同事Lisa Shaw,她来自养老院,went through hundreds and hundreds of sets of notes我们一起在医疗档案室in the medical records department翻看了成千上万本病历,looking at whether there was any sign at all我们想确认是否有that anybody had had any conversation about任何人曾经what might happen to them if the treatment they were就如果他们的治疗失败receiving was unsuccessful to the point that they would die.而导致他们死亡而作出任何安排的谈话。And we didnt find a single record of any preference可是,我们找不到关于他们的自我选择,about goals, treatments or outcomes from any目标、治疗或者最终结果这方面的东西of the sets of notes initiated by a doctor or by a patient.医生记录或病人自己写的都没有。So we started to realize我这才意识到that we had a problem,我们出了问题,and the problem is more serious because of this.而正因为这一点,这个问题变得更严重。What we know is that obviously we are all going to die,我们大家都知道的是很明显,我们都会死去,but how we die is actually really important,但我们以何种方式死去更重要,obviously not just to us, but also to how that很明显,这不仅对我们重要,features in the lives of all the people who live on afterwards.这对那些活着的人也很重要。How we die lives on in the minds of everybody其实我们会怎样死去,who survives us, and这在抢救我们的人的心中是心里有数的,the stress created in families by dying is enormous,而死亡给一个家庭带来的压力是巨大的,and in fact you get seven times as much stress by dying事实上,死在ICU所带来的压力in intensive care as by dying just about anywhere else,是死在其它地方所带来的压力的7倍,so dying in intensive care is not your top option所以,选择在ICU结束自己的生活并不是一个明智的决定if youve got a choice.如果你有得选择的话。201507/387765

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